This note was supposed to give three reasons a piece for ‘them loving you more’ and ‘them loving you more’ but I decided to take the three away and to just give several reasons a piece. It’s easier this way considering I get carried away at times.

Reasons You Should Love Them More Than They Love You…

Have you ever tried being in a relationship with someone that you weren’t crazy about? Scratch that, have you ever tried being on a date with a good person that you weren’t necessarily attracted to? That’s not to say the person wasn’t attractive in general, it just means you weren’t attracted to them in that… ‘I can’t wait to touch him/her’ sort of way.

It’s not a good feeling, because it feels like a waste of time. You’re there, they’re cracking jokes you don’t care for. They’re smiling and happy and all you can think about is what the person you’re crazy about would be doing in this situation. She’s sitting there but all you see is another woman’s smile, another woman’s cleavage. She’s soft and sweet but when you look in her eyes you don’t fall hard.

Now multiply that times ten… That’s what it’s like when you’re in a relationship with someone that isn’t what you want in your heart. It doesn’t mean you can’t be happy, it simply means you’ll never have all your desires satisfied. You can be happy and grateful and feel a sense of love but you’ll never feel ‘That’ sense of love.

Knowing you’re coming home to someone that you love more than anything on this earth is the best feeling in the world. Picking up a woman that you feel so much passion for, so much intensity for, it’s perfection in motion. Whether you’re buying her a gift that you know she’ll love or picking up her favorite dinner, it doesn’t matter. Because making her happy is all you need to be happy. That’s the joy in loving a woman more than she loves you.

And let’s not fool ourselves, we know. We know when our emotions run just a little bit deeper than those of the person we’re with. It may not be noticeable to the naked eye but we know. And we don’t mind because we have them, because every moment  we spend with them is that much more special because we don’t know if it could be the last.

Every touch, every kiss, every smile they give is electric. It’s a privilege and an honor to have them on your side when you go out. Pride is a great trait to have in most situations but when you love someone more than they love you; you’ll push your pride aside with the quickness.

I imagine I’ll love my wife more then she loves me because I’m a people pleaser when it comes to women. And I don’t mind one bit.

As a matter of fact, anyone reading this. If you think about your greatest memories, your greatest romances. They’ll be with someone you were absolutely crazy about, not someone that treated you perfectly.  

Reasons They Should Love You More Than You Love Them…

Who doesn’t want to be adored?

Who doesn’t want to be the center of someone’s attention?

I often think about if I stopped writing on FB, if I cut my phone off and put it in my desk drawer. If I just got in my truck and drove away, who would go out of their way to look for me?

Not my family because they would almost be obligated to but what woman would lose her mind over me not being around anymore? And the answer to that question is probably no one. But if a woman loves me more than I love her, if I’m everything she wants and needs she’ll do whatever it takes to find me.

When someone loves you more than you love them you can see it in their eyes every time you’re around them. You hear it on the phone, they just want to please you.




They put in the effort to make you happy and you love them for that. You’ll fight for them and trust them and hold them down because you know they’ll hold you down at any cost.

And is there anything more important in this life than knowing who’s willing to hold you down no matter what the cost?

One Reason Why the Love Should Be Perfectly Equal…

When love is perfectly equal, the story always makes sense. You don’t question her coming home late from work or spending the night at her mothers. You don’t trip when she asks you for your last because you know she would do the same for you.

There is no shame, no embarrassment, no fear.

When love is perfectly equal the engagements and perfect moments aren’t one sided.

It’s cool to have someone that loves you more than you love them.

It’s great to love someone more then they love you.

But it’s perfect to have someone that’s just as into you, just as crazy about you…

It rarely happens this way but when it does, it’s like everything in this Universe is aligned.


I write about love and perfection a lot. I know the two don’t necessarily go together but I do love the idea of them coming together. Maybe I’m a romantic, I can accept that. I just know my heart will always be in the right place.  


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