I can’t tell you what Eric Jerome Dickey book it was but there was this quote that said when you sleep with someone a piece of your soul goes with them and the more you sleep with them the more of you they have. Even if you think it’s meaningless your souls are now connected. And then last night I was on Facebook and saw a friend make the statement…
Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise. The more you interact intimately with someone the deeper the connection and the more their aura is intertwined with yours. Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life. “Never sleep with someone you don’t want to be.” ~ Ebony Griffin
My point on this beautiful Friday is that there is no such thing as casual sex. There is no such thing as meaningless sex. Even if you aren’t a religious person you have to understand that our bodies are temples. Whether it’s the food we eat, the things we drink or the intimate moments we share. Something as simple as a kiss is your energy, your DNA, your essence being inhaled into another person. We can’t attach the words casual or meaningless to an act that can create a human life.
I’ve written this week about sexually loose people changing, I’ve written about fathers not in the home and all those are tied to sexual experiences that took way more from those people than it gave them. There’s nothing casual about your essence. This is the thing, I’m not judging the women that sleep with men for money or the men that sleep with women for the thrill of the hunt. That’s not my place, I’m not without sin. What I’m simply doing is pointing out that even if you think there’s a purpose for you giving your body to someone that purpose probably isn’t worth it. I saw a status the other day that said…
“As long as a woman as a mouth and a pu**y she should never be broke.” That saddened me so much because when you put a value on your body you’re diminishing your brand. Is your body worth a 200 dollar cable bill? Is it worth a 147 dollar light bill? Or is it worth someone co-signing for you a car? I get times get hard and morals have to be sacrificed, sins have to be committed but with every sin you commit using your body you’re demoralizing your body.
Sexual expression and freedom may be your thing, if you can give yourself to people in that way that’s between you and your God but when you’re doing it physically but in your mind and heart you don’t want to be there. That’s the shit that damages your soul. These movies come out, “No Strings Attached,” “Friends with Benefits,” and they sort of glorify the whole idea that you can be friends with a woman and still have this really intense, nasty sex. That’s simply craziness people! I’m the sort of man that has jealous tendencies, if we’re sleeping together, we’re serious. Point. Blank. I’m not going to be lying next to you on the couch naked and you set up a date with another guy or tell me “thanks buddy.” I don’t believe in casual sex or one night stands. Sure, I flirt a lot and I do my fair share of going out but that’s not sleeping around. And any man that sleeps with you but then claims to be cool with you talking to other men is horrible for your aura and you better run because he could care less about you. And if it’s a woman you really better bounce because she’s been thru some stuff.
This is the first day that I can remember that it’s going to be cool most of the day. The wind blowing, a nice jacket, hot chocolate and Bailey’s. Don’t waste days like this on people that don’t deserve your aura, your spirit, your body. I don’t know if there’s ever a good time to give yourself to those sort of negative spirits but now is definitely not the time. You’re worth the wait, that’s what I try to get across to people. If someone wants you, they’ll wait until you’re comfortable.