Five- Tank top– I know a lot of men prefer to see women in their t-shirt but to be honest that’s just never been my thing. My shirts are way too big and that whole draping look just isn’t my thing. I like to see the definition of a woman and tank tops do that. Use your imagination or look in the mirror in some cases. A pretty black tank top, black lace boy shorts, nude fingernails, the heater going, Adele in the background. Her reading on the couch, her legs crossed, a glass of wine on the floor. I love that image, I see that image, that image haunts me. But let me not get off subject. I get lingerie; I find it just as sexy as the next man. But I’m just as turned on by a tank top and panties. That just seems more natural to me.
Four- My Dress Shirt- I made mention of t-shirts draping off of a woman in five and now I’m like, “one of my dress shirts?” I know someone is reading this thinking, “What’s the difference bro?” And the difference is… Dress shirts add this classic sort of sexiness. She roles up the sleeves, buttons one, two, three buttons and under that all you see is skin. I’ve never known a woman that liked putting on clothes after sex, maybe a pair of panties but when you’re watching her open the fridge or pop popcorn or pour a bowl of cereal in that button down. Knowing she’s only wearing it because it has your cologne on it, knowing she’s only wearing it so she can be that much closer to you. It’s a pretty cool feeling.
Three- Cap and Gown– Intelligence. Growth. Maturity. Dedication. Will Power. It is no easy thing to finish college, that’s why so many people give up or fail or pursue other dreams in life. So when I see a woman in a cap and gown I think about all she’s sacrificed, all the studying, all the papers she’s written and dates she’s cancelled. I see a woman that wanted it enough to go get it! That cap and gown is sexy because it’s real, it’s tangible. She isn’t the same woman she was when she walked thru those doors and growth is a sexy ass trait. I’m a writer, I love smart women with a passion. Good conversation, well read, that’s something that grows on me and impresses me rather quickly. Have you ever heard a woman that’s just graduated give a speech at a graduation party? The emotion in her voice, the way she’s always wearing perfect heels and has her hair sitting just right under that hat. It just works. It’s a turn on.
Two- Skin– When I was talking about the dress shirts, I said that most chicks hate clothes. Now some more than others but they just like being naked, especially if they’re comfortable around you. So when I see a woman in purely skin I’m just in awe, even if I’ve seen her naked a hundred times. Maybe it’s the texture or the softness of thighs but whatever the case it just excites me. Not only in a physical way but in a mental way. There’s something relaxing about a naked woman, calming even. When all she’s in is skin, I know she’s not going anywhere for a minute.
One- Little Black Dress- Coca Chanel is a genius, she took black which at the time was a color for men’s suits and funerals and created the “Little Black Dress.” Usually it sits right above the thighs, sleeveless, cleavage or a collar, it varies and it just works. Short hair, long hair, heels, boots, flats. Though I wouldn’t suggest boots. When I see a woman in a little black dress I always imagine she has on a really colorful bra and panty. Or leopard or cheetah or something vibrant. I think about if she tried on several variations of the dress or did she know her size and what she wanted. I see her pretty hand wrapped around a wine flute, I see her twirling around in the mirror to make sure everything about that “Little Black Dress,” is perfect. That look represents all that a woman is to me. I’m that guy that loves feminine. I don’t want to date a guy, I want her in dresses and perfume and girly undertones. The little black dress always brings a smile to this writers face.
Anyway, these are just some late night thoughts from a man with a mind that never shuts off. Get some sleep if you’re still up out there. The year is almost up and the nights are longer so dream about your desires and then live those desires.