The Nicer You Treat Her Outside the Bedroom; The Naughtier It Will Get Inside the Bedroom

hot-chicks-covered-in-chocolate-8Desire comes at a cost no matter what you get told. Sometimes that cost can be money, sometimes it can be emotional currency and often times it’s simply time. The worst thing in the world is making a woman feel cheap because you can’t come back from that.

A lot of men spend so much time and energy trying to get women naked that soon after they do they think the battle is done. That’s a backwards way of looking at your love life, once you’ve had sex with her the worst thing you can do is fall back. Not if you want to do it again.

Comfort is desire’s best friend. Do you know what the two biggest turn-ons are to women and the two most neglected by men? The first is simplicity. What cream does she put in her coffee everyday, if she goes to Starbucks, what does she order? Is she a peanut m&m girl or a chocolate m&m girl? Women tell us in every conversation a small detail that it’s in our best interest to remember. Showing up at her doorstep with a small reminder that you remember everything she tells you, that you listen. You can’t buy that sort of compassion. Compassion and comfort= freaky sh*t on a Wednesday night.

The second is being dependable. How do you think these guys that are constantly screwing up are steadily getting these women pregnant or creeping back into their lives? She knows he’s a liar, she knows he won’t do right but when she needs something he’s there. If he sees her car is dirty, he washes it. Her oil needs changing, he gets it done. That’s what being dependable does for a woman, it takes the stress out of her life.

Buying flowers is cool. Taking her to a restaurant that you need a blazer just to walk in is even better but don’t understatement just being nice. Actually talking to her about her day, making her laugh when she’s been stressing all day. Eating all your food on the plate when you both know it sucks, she cooked it, she knows it’s burnt. She’ll love you because you ate it all when everyone else would have talked about her. A purse she saw a month ago that’s out of her budget it, buy it. It’s tricking if you got it, it ain’t tricking if you got her. Be nice, be a man, be funny and watch panties become optional and morning sex become mandatory before you walk out that door. I may be single but that’s by choice, take the advice and watch your quality of life explode all over your sheets.

 

3 thoughts on “The Nicer You Treat Her Outside the Bedroom; The Naughtier It Will Get Inside the Bedroom

  1. Reblogged this on demezw and commented:

    Buying flowers is cool. Taking her to a restaurant that you need a blazer just to walk in is even better but don’t understatement just being nice. Actually talking to her about her day, making her laugh when she’s been stressing all day. Eating all your food on the plate when you both know it sucks, she cooked it, she knows it’s burnt. She’ll love you because you ate it all when everyone else would have talked about her. A purse she saw a month ago that’s out of her budget it, buy it. It’s tricking if you got it, it ain’t tricking if you got her. Be nice, be a man, be funny and watch panties become optional and morning sex become mandatory before you walk out that door. I may be single but that’s by choice, take the advice and watch your quality of life explode all over your sheets.

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