One- Wet Kisses- There’s a moment, a moment of absolute lust and desire and bliss. That moment is when you come up from tasting her, her juices still on your tongue, her body still shaking from the orgasm and you kiss her. She’s still trying to catch her breath, you can feel her heart beating and she sucks “her” right off your tongue.
It’s incredibly nasty, incredibly arousing and perfect. Her legs open wider and your fingers find the spot where your lips left off. The kiss isn’t just a kiss, it’s a promise of closeness and trust and vulnerability. That kiss has no shame, no embarrassment, no regret. In that moment of vulnerability you know that she isn’t afraid to taste herself she knows that you aren’t afraid of how uninhibited she can be.
Two– Masturbation– This is sort of piggybacking off of one. The older we get the more we take masturbation for granted. Especially the watching and participating part of it. There is nothing more attractive to me than watching a woman touch herself. I can never know her body better than she can know her on. Sitting back and watching the rhythm in which she moves her fingers, the timing in which she brings herself to climax, it’s Oscar worthy. Have you ever been driving and looked over to see her fingers in-between her thighs and her head tiled back in pleasure? Have you ever opened your phone and saw a video that she sent you that you knew you shouldn’t be watching in public. The mental stimulation alone is mind blowing.
Three- Pain and Pleasure– Don’t knock choking until you try it. Not “I’m going to kill you choking,” but slight pressure that makes it rough and volatile. Whether it’s on the back of her neck when she’s on all fours or up against a wall. Biting in places she’s only going to see when she’s in the shower or getting dressed. Below her belly button, upper thighs, lower back. When pain is placed just right the pleasure that comes from it just works.
Four- Four-Play– Do you know what I love about cooking? It isn’t eating the meal, I could go to a really nice restaurant and eat a great meal. What I love about cooking is knowing that I started from scratch, knowing that I got to taste test everything and boil the water, grease the pan and cut the vegetables. I look at women the same way, kisses from behind while she’s opening the refrigerator. Her hand in my leg in the movie theater or when I’m driving. Sitting on my lap when I’m typing or her head on my shoulder when we’re watching a movie at home. Four play isn’t just those moments right before Heaven but it’s the moments that make us feel like this is our first time. You’re never too old for simple pleasure.