I worry that a lot of men mistake being nice for being weak. They literally jam Drake and cry themselves to sleep because the woman that love doesn’t want to return their calls or is making a FB status about another guy.
It’s not because she’s into bad boys or doesn’t respect that you pay for dinner or hold or door open. It’s because in her eyes you’re a push over, the little brother that she loves to death but can make go get her some ice cubs at the drop of a dime.
Grown women aren’t having babies and taking care of bad boys and lazy grown men. She doesn’t not answer your text or accept your invited because you’re nice, she puts you on the backburner because you’re weak.
It’s okay to look a woman in her eyes and tell her no. It’s okay to kiss her without her asking you to, it’s okay to pick her up and not ask her where she’d like to go. Women are turned on by men that are in control. By a man that she knows will protect her and put her in her place. If she leaves because you start no she was going to leave sooner than later anyway.
I don’t have all the answers and you don’t have to listen to some unmarried childless writer from Houston, TX but if there’s one thing I know it’s women. They don’t like men that act like b*tches. She will put up with a guy grabbing her and telling her I love you too much to let you walk away.
Her heart will beat faster when that man holds her hand outside of the restaurant and tells her from this moment on I don’t want you dating anyone else and kisses the hell out of her. Weakness is a disease that will cause you more hurt than any toothache or headache. Be a man and let her know weak doesn’t live here.