It’s okay to look a woman in her eyes and tell her no. It’s okay to kiss her without her asking you to, it’s okay to pick her up and not ask her where she’d like to go. Women are turned on by men that are in control. By a man that she knows will protect her and put her in her place. If she leaves because you start no she was going to leave sooner than later anyway.
It’s not because she’s into bad boys or doesn’t respect that you pay for dinner or hold or door open. It’s because in her eyes you’re a push over, the little brother that she loves to death but can make go get her some ice cubs at the drop of a dime.
Grown women aren’t having babies and taking care of bad boys and lazy grown men. She doesn’t not answer your text or accept your invited because you’re nice, she puts you on the backburner because you’re weak.
It’s okay to look a woman in her eyes and tell her no. It’s okay to kiss her without…
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