Love is very much an action word. It’s a verb in every sense of the word. When you love a woman there are just certain things you won’t ask her to do.
When you really love a woman you don’t put her in positions where she has to choose between her self-worth or pride and her love for you. There’s a vulnerability that comes with someone giving themselves to you. You can either cherish that gift or break it. You won’t ask her to be weak so that she can love you.
When you love a woman you don’t straddle the fence on your intentions. When you’re dating maybe but not once you love her. Once she’s come into your life and sucked your soul in; there’s only two options. You love her completely and fully the way a man should love a woman or you love her enough to let her go. You won’t ask her to wait in purgatory for your love.
One of the coolest things about love is the intimacy. The comfort that comes with not wanting or needing but craving someone. A craving that feels like Godzilla standing on your chest and she’s the only one that can ease that pressure. You don’t ask a woman to hide her love for you, to hide that craving. You care about the smallest details of her life. You don’t ask her to go anywhere else when she needs someone.
When you love a woman you love what she loves. You don’t ask her to decide between her friends and family and you. However annoying or difficult you make it work. It may not be perfect but your love for her trumps all the bullshit. Trumps all the pettiness and insecurities.