An unusual statement has been made by Jess Nal, an Australian woman who has four children, including 2-week-old twins.
She is forced to constantly conceal one of the twins when she goes out in public.
Jess has even modified the stroller so that one baby is not visible to passersby.
So why does she act this way? Her frank and sincere statement will surprise you!
It turns out that the young mother is perplexed by the numerous and sometimes inappropriate inquiries from strangers, which she finds extremely exhausting.
As soon as they see her adorable twins, they immediately begin their intrusive questions.
“Oh, are they identical?” “It must be tough for you to take care of twins.” “Which one do you prefer?” “Are you breastfeeding?” – a mother of multiple children has to hear all these questions daily.
Certainly, Jess is not opposed to people’s attention, but it is important to keep it within bounds. “It’s strange, but individuals don’t realize how much every new mother is unsettled.”
They question incessantly, give useless advice that wastes my time.
Of course, because of this, I lack time to accomplish my tasks. It’s extremely exhausting,” affirmed the mother of several children.
The mother also admitted that conversations with people on the street require much more effort than caring for her four children.
That’s why she modified the design of the stroller so that passersby can only see one child during outings.
Finally, Jess can confidently go about her activities with the little ones and not fear being overwhelmed with inappropriate questions and advice again.
It is important to note that this disturbance not only exhausts Jess but also many other parents of twins or triplets.
It is extremely challenging for many to “reject” the obsessive attention, which often only causes trouble.
Jess’s method may be useful for mothers who want to get rid of unnecessary attention.
