Being a father or mother is an immense responsibility that demands substantial commitment from both parties.
While a father’s involvement in raising and caring for the child may vary with time, environments, and situations, his role goes beyond what some may attribute to him—namely, as a mere parent or assistant to the mother in her educational mission and daily tasks.
Furthermore, the role of a father is fascinating, with numerous equally essential aspects that together make an extraordinary father.
A father is not only there to ‘support’ his partner in child-rearing. He is not merely there to provide material help or to exert authority. A father’s role also includes daily concern for the health, education, well-being, and schooling of his children.
How to be a good father:
- Be a good husband. Before considering how you care for your children, remember that a good father is first and foremost a good husband.
- Don’t hesitate to leave the house. Having a young child doesn’t prevent you from doing the things you used to do before the baby arrived. Traveling, dining out, and family outings are not excluded.
- Your wife also needs some time for herself. Motherhood is not easy; it is exhausting and demands a lot of time. So, don’t limit yourself to simple assistance; actively engage in caring for the children from the first day they are born.
By doing so, not only will your wife be able to take care of herself and her own well-being, but you will also strengthen the father-child bond and enjoy quality time with them.
- Be tender, put yourself in their shoes; time flies, make the most of every moment.
A healthy father-child relationship is essential for their proper development and psychological stability. Love your children, support them, listen to them, discuss together, exchange views—be there for them.
