😯 I broke up with my girlfriend as soon as she told me she was pregnant: some supported me, while others judged me without knowing what had led me to make this decision.
Anne and I were friends at university. We had many things in common: the same habits, the same tastes. All our friends were eagerly waiting for the moment when we would finally get together.
However, at that time, there were no romantic feelings between us. It was only after finishing university that I started to realize I really loved her. I missed her so much, and I wanted her to always be by my side.
Eventually, I told her about my feelings, and it turned out that it was mutual. She admitted she had always loved me but was afraid to tell me.
We started dating. A few months later, she told me she was pregnant, and that’s when I decided to break up with her.
My parents blamed me, while my brother and sister supported me. My friends were also divided: some understood me, while others didn’t even want to listen to my explanations.
But I had a good reason for making such a decision, and that was…
The full story is in the article in the first comment 👇👇👇.
At the beginning of our relationship, Anne and I had agreed not to have children in the first few years.
Neither of us had a stable professional situation yet, and we weren’t financially ready.
However, she decided to stop her contraception without talking to me about it, as she had started seriously considering the idea of having a child.
She explained to me that the idea of becoming a mother made her happy.
For my part, I wanted to offer a more stable future for our future children, something I didn’t think I could do right now.
I saw this as a loss of trust in our relationship, and I decided to break up with her.
